If you develop sympathy, cordial and amiable attitude, the inner doors self-acting opens in you. Through those doors you can much easily communicate with other people. You reveal that all human beings are the same as you and you already in advance feel that you are able to communicate with them. That endues you with friendly spirit. From that moment you do not have to feign anymore, you are free from fears, doubts and rootless feeling. Furthermore, that creates trust in you from other people side.

/Dalailama/